WHY STARSEEDS INCARNATE IN DYSFUNCTIONAL NARCISSISTIC FAMILIES WITH GENERATIONAL TRAUMA?
I always asked myself, why the heck am I in this family?
Considering how our soul chooses the place and family of incarnation, why was I born in this highly toxic family?
Even my relatives had unhealthy habits.
Everything was so fucked up.
WHY STARSEEDS INCARNATE IN DYSFUNCTIONAL NARCISSISTIC FAMILIES WITH GENERATIONAL TRAUMA?
Despite common thought, it's not rare for starseeds to incarnate in abusive families where dysfunctional patterns have been a thing for generations previously.
Especially the Indigo and Crystal waves (see Dolores Canon's book "The Three Waves of Volunteers for the new Earth" for more info). But instead of being born in a healthy, secure family, why do they do this?
Starseeds have many different missions when they incarnate on Earth.
Yet, no matter how different their purpose is on this planet, the mission is still the same - to raise humanity's consciousness and boost the frequency of the collective vibration.
And in this includes the breaking of old systems & relationships dynamics that do not work anymore, while offering a new approach, a new methodology and a new perspective.
Another reason you might be in a toxic household as a starseed is, again, to clear the negative karmic energy they had from past timelines fighting against darkness.
If you really think about this, being born in an abusive family, and stepping out, being a surviuvor while healing and transmuting the huge amounts of trauma and CPTSD (something your family ancestors probably didn't do) is already huge work for the collective.
That's why many (not all) are born in families where abusive, toxic and unhealthy dynamics were the norm for generations in their lineage.
Starseeds are here to disrupt the system, and BREAK the cycle of abuse & toxicity.
They are here to heal and transmute the generational trauma, teaching new ways of parenting and creating healthy relationships based on respect, unconditional love and honesty.
Starseeds took on the karmic patterns that the ancestors carried for family lineages, and their main mission now is to transmute the old low vibrational ways of thinking and being (depression, hopelessness, despair, resentment, hatred, numbness, apathy) into COURAGE, RESILIENCE, and an INNOVATIVE ENTREPRENEUR mindset.
That's why many of them usually feel lonely or are alone around people - their frequency doesn't match with their human families one.
If you resonate with this post, I truly believe it's time for you to seek solutions to move this stagnant energy in your body and mind you call depression.
Of course, it's not a one day or week process, might take more time than you expect, but the more you heal yourself, the more you heal your family lineage, and this the entire collective.
Because living in poverty and despair is not what we really came here to Be.
That's when I understood I was the one that had to take responsibility to heal myself so I could stop this highly abusive cycle.
It ends with me
Because if you don't heal it, even if you reincarnate in a completely different family after the end of your life, you'll have the exact same patterns.
Until you learn them. Transmute them. And heal them.
So what do you feel is currently stopping you for fully stepping into your power, dear starseed?
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